[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/u-vy-muzete-byt-stastni\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/u-vy-muzete-byt-stastni\/","headline":"U vy m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed!","name":"U vy m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed!","description":"T\u011bchto p\u011bt pravidel zve\u0159ejnil jeden z nejlep\u0161\u00edch rusk\u00fdch psycholog\u016f. Do\u0161el k nim na z\u00e1klad\u011b sv\u00e9ho dlouholet\u00e9ho b\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed....","datePublished":"2025-03-05","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"frogu.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287921_w2174_t1498482719.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287921_w2174_t1498482719.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/u-vy-muzete-byt-stastni\/","wordCount":654,"articleBody":"T\u011bchto p\u011bt pravidel zve\u0159ejnil jeden z nejlep\u0161\u00edch rusk\u00fdch psycholog\u016f. Do\u0161el k nim na z\u00e1klad\u011b sv\u00e9ho dlouholet\u00e9ho b\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 D\u011blejte to, co chceteM\u016f\u017ee se v\u00e1m zd\u00e1t, \u017ee je to a\u017e tro\u0161ku utopick\u00e9 pravidlo. P\u0159ece do pr\u00e1ce nechod\u00edte pro z\u00e1bavu, ale pro pen\u00edze. Ale mus\u00ed to b\u00fdt takto? Nem\u016f\u017eete si naj\u00edt pr\u00e1ci, kter\u00e1 by v\u00e1s bavila? Ur\u010dit\u011b m\u016f\u017eete! Pokud si \u0159eknete, \u017ee se v\u00e1m do pr\u00e1ce nechce v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u011b dneska, z\u016fsta\u0148te doma a vezm\u011bte si volno. Nechce se v\u00e1m ani dal\u0161\u00ed dny? Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b to opravdu d\u011blat nechcete a chcete d\u011blat n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. Najd\u011bte si novou pr\u00e1ci a bu\u010fte v n\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed!\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nikdy ned\u011blejte to, co opravdu nechcetePravidlo \u010d\u00edslo dv\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee nic, co nechcete d\u011blat, nen\u00ed t\u0159eba d\u011blat. Vyka\u0161lejte se jednou pro v\u017edy na v\u0161echno, co d\u011blat nechcete. A\u0165 u\u017e jsou to povinn\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy nebo srazy se spolu\u017ea\u010dkami. D\u011blejte jenom to, co v\u00e1s bav\u00ed a co v\u00e1s nevys\u00e1v\u00e1. M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee mus\u00edte p\u0159ed V\u00e1noci d\u011blat gener\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00faklid, proto\u017ee se to tak m\u00e1 d\u011blat? Ned\u011blejte to. Ukli\u010fte si, a\u017e se v\u00e1m bude cht\u00edt. V\u011b\u0159te mi, d\u0159\u00edv nebo pozd\u011bji i vy budete cht\u00edt uklidit.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0158\u00edkejte, co v\u00e1m vad\u00edPokud v\u00e1m n\u011bco vad\u00ed, \u0159\u00edkejte to. \u0158\u00edkejte to p\u0159\u00edmo, s noblesou, s \u00factou, ale mluvte. Zabij\u00e1kem \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u017eivota b\u00fdv\u00e1 nej\u010dast\u011bji to, \u017ee neum\u00edme \u0159\u00edct, co n\u00e1m vad\u00ed. Frustrace z t\u011bchto situac\u00ed se pak kumuluje a bu\u010f o n\u011bco p\u0159ijdeme nebo se n\u00e1m n\u011bco rozpadne. Ano, mluv\u00edm i o vztaz\u00edch. Ale uv\u011bdomme si, \u017ee cel\u00fd n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot je o vztaz\u00edch. Tak\u017ee poj\u010fme \u0159\u00edkat, co n\u00e1m vad\u00ed s \u00factou k druh\u00e9mu a ud\u011blejme tak maximum pro n\u00e1\u0161 spokojen\u00fd \u017eivot.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Odpov\u00eddejte na dotazySt\u00e1v\u00e1 se v\u00e1m tak\u00e9, \u017ee se v\u00e1s nikdo na nic nept\u00e1 a stejn\u011b m\u00e1te pot\u0159ebu odpov\u00eddat? Ano? Tak s t\u00edm okam\u017eit\u011b skon\u010dete. Odpov\u00eddejte na p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 dotazy. Odpov\u00eddejte na n\u011b p\u0159\u00edmo, galantn\u011b a pravdiv\u011b. Pokud v\u0161ak se v\u00e1s nikdo na nic nept\u00e1, nemluvte. Mo\u017en\u00e1 by se zde dalo uplatnit heslo: Ml\u010deti zlato. Ale pozor, st\u00e1le plat\u00ed pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo t\u0159i: \u0158\u00edkejte, kdy\u017e v\u00e1m n\u011bco vad\u00ed.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Mluvte pouze ve vztahu k sob\u011bNemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee by bylo dobr\u00e9 b\u00fdt egocentrickou osobou, ale v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee pokud n\u011bkomu n\u011bco sd\u011blujete a druh\u00e1 osoba se c\u00edt\u00ed ohro\u017een\u00e1, nebude vn\u00edmat faktick\u00fd v\u00fdznam t\u00e9to v\u011bci, ale bude vn\u00edmat pouze to ohro\u017een\u00ed. Zkuste tuto situaci vy\u0159e\u0161it tak, \u017ee doty\u010dn\u00e9mu sd\u011bl\u00edte, jak konkr\u00e9tn\u011b se v\u00e1s to dot\u00fdk\u00e1, nikoli, jak on je stra\u0161n\u00fd. Druh\u00fd pohled na toto pravidlo existuje tak\u00e9. A to, \u017ee nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 mluvit o ostatn\u00edch. Pokud nem\u00e1te, co \u0159\u00edct hezk\u00e9ho, ne\u0159\u00edkejte rad\u011bji nic. U\u0161et\u0159\u00edte tak spoustu negativn\u00ed energie.\u00a0M\u016f\u017ee se v\u00e1m mo\u017en\u00e1 zd\u00e1t, \u017ee tento soubor p\u011bti pravidel zn\u00ed zcela utopicky, mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee je to nemo\u017en\u00e9. Ale zkuste od te\u010f \u017e\u00edt podle t\u011bchto rad. Nejprve jeden den. Pak dal\u0161\u00ed a dal\u0161\u00ed. Nalepte si body na ledni\u010dku a ka\u017ed\u00fd den si je p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte a sna\u017ete se jimi \u0159\u00eddit. V\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot se jist\u011b prom\u011bn\u00ed.A nevzd\u00e1vejte to, NIKDY! \u017divot m\u00e1me jenom jeden!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (3 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"U vy m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed!","item":"https:\/\/www.frogu.cz\/u-vy-muzete-byt-stastni\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]